After a weekend away with her girlfriends my wife suddenly suggested we use a condom to make the sex a bit mor?

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not enough info... i dont think there are many mind readers who use YA! although there are a lot of opinionated idiots





if you're concerned about any aspect of your relationship you should FIRST OF ALL talk to your wife.After a weekend away with her girlfriends my wife suddenly suggested we use a condom to make the sex a bit mor?
Yeah, talk to your wife. Is a little suspect, but then maybe she talked to her mates about the contraceptive pill making her put on weight etc and if she was on that before, maybe she's come off it but didn't know how to tell you. Could be many reasons - maybe confront her and if her answer doesn't feel right then go to the clinic with her to see if anything's up. Although if she is clear but did cheat that doesn't answer that does it. Just talk to her dude.After a weekend away with her girlfriends my wife suddenly suggested we use a condom to make the sex a bit mor?
*shrugs* Maybe your wife never mentioned that YOU finish way to quickly for her (ie she isn't getting off) and her friends said ';Have your husband use a condom as it cuts down on sensitivity..ie you go longer';. Beyond that, maybe someone tapped your wife (and she plans on doing it again) and she is afraid some of the funk she picked up from a stranger might be passed onto you (making you very much aware of the fact that she cheated).
If you suspect, you are probably right. She may have had unprotected sex with someone and is afraid of passing something along until she's had herself checked. ....or it could be something her friends suggested. Does she give you BJ's? Maybe she'd find it easier with condom? Maybe you'd be more willing to go down on her for a repeat if you'd used a condom. Could be a lot of reasons.
hmmmm this does sound a bit odd but i do not know your wife. In my opinion condoms just make sex a bit more...uncomfortable?! What was she trying to get at? What did she say her reason was? that might help to explain a bit more. Maybe she has had thrush and is embarrassed or doesn't want you to get it. i sort of think if she was a decent human being she would find it hard to sleep with you knowing she had cheated on you. It's very callous if she has and will still sleep with you but just suggesting a condom.





Hope it works out okay. talk to her openly.
LOL I can't help but think that if this question were ';after a weekend away with his guy friends my husband suddenly suggested we use a condom to make the sex a bit mor?';, the misandrists would be out in force, screeching ';he's cheating on you!!!!!! dump him and take him for all he's worth!!!!!!';.
I guess the best thing to do is ask her why the change. We can all assume maybe she cheated on you or maybe she does not want any kids, but the true answer would have to come from her.
I'm guessing.


She had unprotected sex with a man %26amp; is afraid she may have caught a social disease %26amp; doesn't want you to catch it until she has it checked out.
Or maybe she has just stopped taking other precautions like the pill and now wants you to play your part in avoiding pregnancy something as innocent as rthat
I dont think you need us to confirm your doubts on this do you? Is quite obvious. If my fiance wanted to suddenly start using condoms, he wouldnt be sleeping in our bed. Excuses or not!
Maybe she thinks you cheated while she was away. And she is just protecting herself.
Ha Ha, she,s been naughty when away !!!!!
maybe she doesn't want a baby so she can be free to have a bit more fun without worrying about a baby
Hey,am sorry but something is wrong
it's time to give her the flick
hmmm, I am stumped on this one! maybe she cheated....who knows.